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Oprah and Stedman have been in a relationship for 33 years.

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Oprah is goals. An example that you don't need a marriage certificate to have a committed relationship.
The same people quoting this with "goals" will come here to cry after their boyfriend don't propose to them for ordinary 16 years.
If Oprah wasn't rich she'd have married him. But because of her net worth, marriage is a risk. If they were to divorce he'd get half & she isn't willing to take that risk. Poor guy, nothing to show for those 33 years, no child just dogs & cats probably 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️
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I would too if 2,5 billion dollars is involved
Oprah’s the one with the money, Stedman had no choice in the matter. The fact that he proposed once clearly highlights his intentions for marriage. She didn’t want marriage to restrict her & affect her finances. If the roles were reversed he’d be attacked for wasting her time.
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Oprah has the Mjolo User Manual template and she ain't sharing it with no one.
Wealthy women seem smarter than wealthy men
And she opted to stay unmarried and without child. This is why you gotta live life according to your own set of rules.
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Do you think marriage is a necessary step in a relationship?
Hit me up if you tryna be like this, I’d make an amazing Stedman 🤞🏾
Kodwa oMbali with only pumps & a cell c airtime advance debt will ask you “uzonglobola Nini ?” After a week. Nezlonda ekhanda
Ana Mevhi, kungodanana 3 months zvaakutonzi so where is this going nywe nywe
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nunca se casaram..✊🏾😂
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The body language says , a deep connection , an understanding , mutual respect , we don't hold each other back , a friendship . That's what am seeing , companionship 🤷‍♀️
Nigerian ladies see your mate... ordinary 10 years relationship they will start disturbing men dem for marriage. Impatient people
The real queen of "but as friends"💀💀💀
Wow. He’s never asked ‘babe what are we?’
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The kinda money involved dont require marriage
Proving yet again that every relationship has ita own dynamics. Do what works for YOU
Just last week ne ba re they will end the relationship after 4 years if they don't get a ring today ba re Oprah is goals 🥴🥴
You see how relationships last when you don't put a label on them
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I don't believe in such nonsense.
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Oprah looking out for her coins
For some reasons I feel if he was the billionaire, there would be outrage as to why he didn't marry how and how he wasted her time. How else would a woman tap into the billions?

The only thing better than marrying a billionaire is divorcing him
- Anonymous

This arrangement? 👍
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Please don't compare yourselves to billionaires. Marry wena mtase! 🤣
A whole billionaire has waited over 33 years, this is the excuse we needed fellas
And nobody says Oprah is wasting his time by not marrying him.

But they wanted to swallow Diddy for not marrying somebody
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African mothers/families won't allow it...you can't stay with their daughter without marrying them 🤔
Marriage just complicates things. Jola till you die ❤
In 2 months Nigeria girls will be seeking to meet your parents
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For a marriage to last, it has to be done for right reasons, according to Customs, norms and traditions governing the parties involved, with mutual respect, OR not done at all. It doesnt matter how rich or famous you are, male or female. You cant use marriage to force submission.
Oprah anamchezea tuu Mzee wa watu si amuoe ?
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In South Africa Women compete for marriage with their families and friends... Thats why most of them are not successful
Next time yall ask when am I getting married, I'll refer you to Oprah.
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She's protecting her finances, she knows someone who lost her fortunes because of divorce.
Our grandparents have been in longer vat n sit relationships...so this is nothing🤭
At any point in time Oprah has the right to tell that light skinned n*gga to get out of her house with no further complications.

Chess not Checkers.
Y'all want to be in a relationship like this one but anina Mali niyizinja nje 😂😂😂
The proof that doesn’t need a contract. Love is enough. In and of itself. Children and contracts aren’t an excuse for staying on. Just love❤️.
I really like it😍❤️
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I cant help but notice that most tweets are of the notion that money is involved and the status quo was determined by Oprah? What if its Stedman who didn't want to? People dont formally marry for reasons from religion, family, surname change all the way to being a shadow.
I want something like this 🤗
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Maybe this is what we should be doing vele ngoba vele ayikho lento
And some of us we are struggling to reach 3 weeks 🤦🏾‍♀️🤧
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Oprah declined Stedman's marriage proposal because he asked her "would you marry me" instead of saying what Oprah wanted, which is "may we get married". She didn't want him to marry her but wanted both of them to marry each other, so they opted for vat 'n sit.
Stedman is from Zwelitsha in the Eastern Cape! Issa Fact!
It's still too soon to be thinking about marriage
This is not for everyone and it’s definitely not proof that marriage is bad. Marriage is still a beautiful thing, it works, it even helps in so many ways. Kudos to Oprah that this is working for her, but let’s not use this to attack marriage 👌🏾 #DoYouBooboo
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Then u hear uMbali complaining that I’m wasting her time when we been together for 11yrs as bf & gf 😜😜 pic.twitter.com/FBptnGr3Wv
This is how long you should date before thinking about marriage.
There’s really no need to rush into anything.
no papers and legal bondage, just billions and vibes.
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Ba jola for 33 years???
Look ! Yet you are complaining about a boyfriend not proposing after dating for 2 years 😂😂😂
Sbwl independent rich woman I’ll support while they takeover the world. So I can play golf and fetch the kids from school in my viano 😍
Before you quote this tweet with “Goals” make sure you’ll be 💯 OK with your partner not wanting to be married. Be sure you’ll be good when they say “I don’t see marriage in our future” don’t come here and start saying “After everything I did for you” 😁
Batswana jola le bone 3 months setse ebile ba go botsa gore o nyala leng. Lmao
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And 2 months into a relationship you're asking me to marry you...get lost you marriage counselor
I don't know why I read it as stepdad 😭😭😭😭💀💀🤣🤣🤣
I will not be hurried 🤣
Anyone would be if $2.6billion is involved
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33 years of Marriage is in my view great but 33 years in a relationship is 33 years of an adulterous relationship kikikiki,its 33 years of being told "let's keep it this way" and l bet uOprah is the one who created the 33 year situation hahaha too opinionated uSis Oprah lol
People are so worried about marriage that they’re confusing it with commitment. Y’all are saying she hasn’t committed to him, but they’ve literally been together for 33 years.
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I thought she was single all along
Marry her na. Is he afraid she's a gold digger??
That’s all!
Date a Nigerian girl for 2 weeks and start getting "Where's this relationship heading to?"
This one if they end I don’t know what you people on here will say.
I imagine her actually being married, just the public has no idea because she’s always been a private woman.
I feel like Oprah probably had Stedman sign such a hectic contract
Stedman looks like spongebob’s dad
Love is granting each other the freedom of choice, get married don’t get married it’s your choice you can love either way 🌻🌻🌻 #Oprah pic.twitter.com/gIDbmCq6GX
when I say marriage is overrated I mean it.
Rena re palla ke 1 month or 2 weeks.. Shuuh
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Oprah is goals. An example that you don't need a marriage certificate to have a committed relationship.
Maybe marriage is the reason why relationships fail
When will Oprah propose surely? 😂
Then some broke, border-line illiterate feminists will advertise their idiocy to the world on Twitter and say 'I don't need a man.'
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One doesn’t need a marriage certificate for a committed relationship
I really wouldn't mind this. I don't want to get married.
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If Oprah was a man, the whole world would demand his head. They'd whine abt how he used the poor guy for 33 years. It's a woman's world.
This is why i am not in a hurry because this is what i want for me and my man
Isjolo long term > marriage
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