Zitha's tweet - "2012 I met a girl at UJ, we both had financial problems and both 1st year's, I decided to quit school, get a job and help her finish school. 2017 she left me for a guy, 2018 same guy murdered her. I sacrificed my dreams and she still chose a murderer. "

@nyikiwenkanyane | 3,987 followers

2012 I met a girl at UJ, we both had financial problems and both 1st year's, I decided to quit school, get a job and help her finish school. 2017 she left me for a guy, 2018 same guy murdered her. I sacrificed my dreams and she still chose a murderer.

Keabetswe🌬

@akreana_

O jewa ke eng ?

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Total of 289 replies and 497 quotes found

Khoma. Com

@KhomaCom

You went to UJ to study and met someone who was struggling financially like you do but you decided to work and pay for her studies. I can guarantee you that you can be millionaire if you can invest the same trust and energy in your life.

Lindelani Mnguni, PhD.

@DrLindelaniM

A good deed is never a mistake; no matter what the consequences are.

Siya Shamase

@Cyeye_SA

I think going back to school part time might actually heal you. Cause i feel you not having an education will always remind you why u dont and eventually the circumstances sorrounding that will come back

Bruce Bateman Esq

@your_stepdad

Imagine getting murdered and someone says "you chose a murderer".

Ugö 🦅🐏

@Sir_Fin

Lmao. You no too get sense bros no vex.

Thandeka

@Thandeka_Teez

😭 forgive yourself ,all that you did was coming from a good place .just that the person didn't appreciate it ., Go back to school n make your dream come true ...your given a chance to rectify your mistakes .🙏🙏

tiny

@tinydoesntsmoke

We've all gone out of our way for someone who didn't care as much as we did, it's okay. You had a good heart and maybe one day things will make sense for you

M O N E Y

@fulungwana

Had it been the other way around we gonna hear the “Man are trash” vibes but bro u can pick up again

Stem-Cell

@tiemedoks

Sigh, this has to be the one of the most heartbreaking response to the trend. May the Lord heal you and replace all your loses, wipe your tears and give you so much joy to forget this pain

@Unkle_K

You quit school to help her finish school? Love must be like LSD

Kesiana🍋

@Kesiagan

No offense, but why in the world did you quit school. For financial reasons or because of said girl

NHLAKANHLANHLA

@NHLAKANHLANHLA

She didnt know she was choosing a murderer. No woman knows that the man they with will kill them one day. May she rest in peace and may you find your peace as well and get to study further

† 🌻 †

@Its_Tutuse

I hope you learnt to put your dreams first before anyone else's.

CA-KS📚🎓💎

@injukhethe

I know how you feel bro, never help a girl achieve her dreams... Once they succeed they'll tell you one thing "you're not my type"

Dr Cloudius

@DCloudius

Dated Girl at UJ in 09,was doing Mech & she was doing Elec.She decided to change studies & do easier coarse to fit her lifestyle.She said no longer happy,broke up.In my final year met some1 doing CTA, getting married next year. U will meet some1 who deserves you

Hakuna Mathata

@Dxusha

Karma knows everyone's address. Go back to school my brother. That chapter has ended itself. pic.twitter.com/VpZQXRA7ko

Marshmallow🌈

@mashoto_moshape

Hectic🙆🙆🙆

Ke Mosotho 👑👑 🇿🇦

@Brian_Thee_MVP

Yeses bra 😭 pic.twitter.com/iIAWKUR3Gz

Phumeza

@TumieSibutha

Iyhoo akunzima, the decisions we take always have consequences...in the end. Good or bad, we gotta learn from them. Sorry for what happened to you 💔

Karabo

@Maruane_

Badimo ba geno Bruh...yoh pic.twitter.com/2sKTAkadxM

MENA

@mena_reke

Where do people find this kind of boyfriends? 😭😭😭😭😭

Tukanebari Siedoma

@Iam_Tuker

Always make yourself a priority, I learnt this the hard way. You should come first before any other person.

Sir. Mudau™

@Sir_Mudau

You were crazy and irresponsible She was unfair, parasitic and trash Karma dealt with her. Learn, accept and move on!

Kopano Radebe

@KOPZERO

Peace and strength be with you brother, I hope one day you will heal

Mondli

@Mondli_VM

I thought I was going through worse

$andile Nkabinde

@SandiNkabi

wabhayiza.

Randomly Random

@Imaginary2morrw

Yoo.. karma in your area doesn't front. Wow😐😐

The Kalanga Princess in Europe 🇮🇩

@Kvlvngv_cess22

Never EVER EVER allow someone to steal your goodness. The fact that she made that choice is HER problem. God will reward you soon enough. Just remember to always do good no matter what, don't let people come and change you because of their own ingratitude.

Simthandile Tsetse

@Ms_Tsetse

This is deep 😭

Beezus

@Beezus888

Lmfaoooo see the moral of the story? You are obviously not ok

STRAIGHT SHOOTER

@fowoserebabz

The only ones I will ever go this length for, if need be, will be any of my siblings....smdh

🇱🇸That Other Guy🇿🇦

@kabedi19

Jizas! This is too much.

Sbongile Masina

@LadyBongs07

Strengths to you hey... the moral of the story is to not forget but to draw strength from it. You will never know why she did what she did but she's gone and there's nothing you can do about it. If need be seek counselling

UNIQUE KUMTAP

@cpkumtap

Is because you did not do rems.

Faisal 'Jajayomi

@JajaPhD

Have you gone back to school?

#ibe

@RejiYates

RIP to the Queen!

But you did yourself sha. No one to blame but you

Thokozani

@small_Q_

Lol to quit school dawg??😲😲... I'm not judging but damn 😂😂🙆🏾‍♂️

Siza Zungu

@Zah_Zungu

Are guys ever gonna learn distancing themselves from educating a woman. Most stories I've heard it doesn't end well.

Hot Okpa 🔥

@_ifxnanya

Idk you, but I know you'll get over this eventually. I'm sorry you had to go through this..

Tall_Asher ♥

@Boda_Korede

You're mad

yves

@cindykhan_

people are going through IT yoh

Legapu 🍉🍉

@KoketsoGiven

🤣loser of the year!

Legendary Hustler

@thobbyvincent

Omo eleyi tun le oooo

Khuluse🤾🏽‍♂️

@MprueDie

Ayke

Nonhle Beryl

@NonhleBeryl

YESSES!!! pic.twitter.com/Vy3rSKabM1

Boogie Harry

@BoogieHarrySA

It's Karma she deserved it!!! it is what it is 💁

#RIP

This year we dominate, sifaka ishoulder.

@Dimakatso_T

Damn what a yesses.😥😥 You're a selfless and kind-hearted human being. It's a pity being this loving doesn't buy immunity. I hope you find healing 🤗.

Osato

@hertytude

You were not wise at all, and I don't want to hear love. Na body just dey catch una.

Mlungisi Dube

@MlungisiMthembo

Imagine if you had done that for your mother or sibling. You don't sacrifice that much to anyone before marriage. While I appreciate people who sacrifice for others, I hate it when someone start to entirely believe that they literally made you and continue to hold you at ransom.

Moss

@Moss_M_

Yhoo I'd never sacrifice my dreams especially for a girl.

Valencia Seshoene😎🇿🇦

@VeighMo

😢😢😭this is so sad

Ofentse S.M ✨

@shibum19

This is so deep 💔

Ifeoluwa™💕

@iffybuks

Ah! This one is serious oh! This o jewa ke is just bringing out orishirishi stories!

Emiloju

@abdwaheed9

Problem is, you won't even feel happy that she was murdered because you still love her. I pray Almighty heal you

♉0️⃣5️⃣ 0️⃣3️⃣♉

@itsmissBonnie

People are shitty. God will reward your good heart. You did well. I believe you have done something beautiful and positive for someone even if they didn't appreciate it.

Alberto M 🎓🇻🇪🐍🏄

@Alberto_millan

Never sacrifice your own well-being for someone else. It is a contradiction to man’s nature to live for others. We have been programmed to believe that being wealthy is bad. That you should live for “the fellow man” .

#Bayile

@DjDukesta

We live and learn bro. Don't be hard on yourself.

s.sithole

@uSihle_

Duude never pay for your girl’s institution fees, at the end they’ll play & leave you, it always happens to guys

yanyuk'iroof

@dalimanyathela

haii kodwa nawe ndoda...if this is true uyaganga.

Delores

@deevardee

Let me read this again😳

Jasmine The Great 🏁

@ImTheReasonWhy

South African twitter is another level.

Qifayah Adedotun

@_caphie

This is a sad story on why you shouldn't sacrifice your dreams for anyone, you can modify it a little but always chose you first. It's not selfish, it's because you're more important

D⭕️R⭕️

@Iam_Doro

Go back to school Bro.. finish your studies you...

Africa Yearning

@africa_yearning

Someone posted this for these times. pic.twitter.com/AmEUrvvme1

Deuce

@Edger_Bluedeuce

Commiserations my good sir... A close friend of mine paid about R12k outstanding for his then GF (during our first year) so she could register for her 2nd... Two months later she apprised him that a prophecy (from her church) dictates that she ceases dating altogether.. But then

Danica Khumalo

@KhumaloDanica

I am so sorry😭😭😭You would have been far by now if only you had known.I still believe you will get there.

Tweet soul

@Tweet_Soul

You were dizzy my guy, time to move on and make peace with it.

Thabang

@thabang_EM

Life is so tough man. Sorry U had to go through such,never ever sacrifice your goals for someone. People switch up all the time

CEO Edo Airline ✈️✈️✈️✈️

@west_flames

You're a disgrace to manhood,why will quit school to help a rib from ur body...when you understand tha same rib fucked Adam up

Drayyy

@drvyke

What's happening on this thread ?!?

Iyana Paja Skip Bayless

@bolu_ay

Someone died and you made it about you 🤔

???

@ItsNotReal_sa

Wawuphapha nawe

Thapedi Ngwepe

@NimNgw

Definitely not the brightest idea the 2 of you came up with silly infact...but she gone you're here live this life it's a gift

THELMA🚶‍♀️

@Miz_chuchu

This left me speechless 😔

🌈 KueeNg 👑 B* 🌈

@BrightMazwi_N

One of the most painful "O Jewa Ke Eng" tweets I've come across 💔

Eagle 🦅

@Damite2ky

This one heavy.

Mam'Ndzotho ❤💕

@Skhora_

Sounds like you still feel some typa way about her not choosing you.

Here's the thing. She didn't owe you anything. You made a choice to drop out of school for her. That's on you.

She may have chosen the wrong guy but she was still not obligated to choose you. Love & light ❤

Aunty Ndu

@ndumnyandu

Sorry

KGR

@r_kage

I hope you learnt a lesson Bro. Never put your dreams on ice to assist someone with theirs. You should have mourned for her when she left you. Now go and be great. Be kind to yourself.